I've often been told that I'm the dude in my marriage.
Here is an example of why:
I always forget Valentine's Day and our Anniversary. Yup, my hubby has to remind me, a lot.
He always asks what I want to do for Valentine's Day, and I usually respond with something like, "Is that coming up again!?" Ya, I usually just blow it off to worry about later. Then hubby will say something like, "Are we exchanging gifts?" To which I will usually reply, "I don't care." This is not a trap for my husband, I really don't care. The last couple of years, hubby has been telling me that he got something for me for Valentine's Day, so he doesn't even ask, he just buys me something. I really don't deserve him. So I am usually scrambling on Valentine's Day trying to figure out what to buy him before he gets home from work. I'm pathetic, I know. I did better this year though, I bought his gift yesterday! Ha!
Hubby also wants to go out for a romantic date on Valentine's, and I really don't. He wants to get a sitter and go to dinner somewhere nice, and I say, "Why can't the girls come?" So we always go out to eat somewhere fun for Valentine's, but our whole family goes because, I love my kids and I don't get why they can't come too. Hubby always reminds me that when they come, it isn't a date, but whatever.
Happy Valentine's Day!
I hope your Valentine is nicer than me. I should really try harder, maybe next year.